It had been one of those long gaps between meetings, and with the hot weather, I’d sort have warmed myself up to the idea of going in bloke mode. Yet, as the night out drew closer, temperatures dropped, and as I was working at home, I packed a bag during my lunchtime. There may also have been an opportunity to paint my toes, but there’s no gap in the company timesheet for that. Shame really, as it does wonders for my mood 🙂
Perhaps as I had no expectations of Chams, that it explains why I had such a good time. I’d made fair time through the traffic. Just in time to help Pat and M & Co set up. After wheeling in two rails worth of clothing in, it was time to shuffle off the blokey coil and glam up. Even falling back to my emergency outfit didn’t harsh my mellow, man 🙂 Makeup all worked, outfit felt right and I had a good chat with Diane & Pat as we got changed. I even remembered to hand over a spare bottle of Clinique make-up remover. The fun of passing on freebies!
Thanks to Pat’s organisation, M & Co had set up shop downstairs, so there was some traffic as people bought, or tried things on. We had a chuckle with Paula and Lesley. Back in the main room, it was great to see some of our irregular regulars turn up: Alison and Jake. Cue much discussion about Jake’s transition and his fully carpeted legs. Curses! I’d been out Wookied! 🙂
There was also a visit from a carer, and, bless she was dropped in the deep end, being involved in a conversation about transition ‘surprises’ that you don’t usually get to hear. She took it all in her stride though. Tell you what, I certainly learned a few things and the was much good natured laughter.
The evening rolled on and it was good to see Dani, last time’s new comer back, as well as another new member, Maya. We had a chat about this and that, before helping M & Co pack everything away. What’s great to see is a growing number of FTM and younger folk choosing to visit. I’m hoping this continues because it’s good for the group’s diversity and good for the community. Win win, really.
As the clock struck 11, and it was time to pack up. Cue the usual photos with Val (thanks Mrs), and then a return to Bloke Mode. Still, enjoy things when you can!
All in all, a great night out. I feel rather chipper. Result!